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November 2003

T*K*O: A Gay Night from Tokyo Sundays at the Site Bar

There isn’t a lot of bowing in London’s gay bars these days, probably not since the eighteenth century molly houses. This is part of the charm of T*K*O, a new “gay night from Tokyo” at the Site Bar. This Sunday evening gathering has grown out of a Soho-based social group for gay Japanese, and is becoming an alternative to other venues where oriental Londoners and, in that creepy phrase, “their admirers” traditionally meet and socialise. The result is that T*K*O is a bit cooler, a bit less cruisey and, well, more Japanese than any of them.

DJ S*h*a*m plays Tokyo pop and the latest Japanese remixes of Kylie. The good-looking and immaculately-dressed crowd is quietly alternative and mostly Japanese, with that punky yet well-scrubbed thing going on that young Japanese guys do so well. Gay Japanese men often describe themselves by the type of guy they go for: foreign (gai-sen), fat (debu-sen), older (fuke-sen), and there are just enough of each to make sure no-one has to go home empty handed. The crowd did thin out fairly early, which makes me think that although T*K*O is mischievously scheduled against the Long Yang Club’s Sunday disco at Thai Square, there will be plenty of two-way traffic.

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